That's us, and this is the main response I've seen to the unfortunate gorilla incident. "It's the mothers' fault. She should have been watching her child better. The zoo should have had more protective measures in place to keep this from happening." All true. Perhaps. And my own initial reaction was "How did that child get down there?" But our initial reactions should have been more along the lines of: "That must have been really tough for that mother to go through. I bet she was really scared." "It's really sad that the gorilla had to die." "It's good that the child is safe and okay." Instead, we respond with judgment. Why did the mother allow this to happen? We rush to place the blame and the first place that it goes is the one person who would need compassion and support the most in a situation like this. How would any of us feel or react if it were our child? Oh yeah, of course it wouldn...
This post was originally written on September 2, 2018. These are all lessons I've been learning and re-learning, and I find myself coming back to them in the deep breaths I take when I feel myself falling down a rabbit hole. Maybe you can find some use in these words too. 1 - It is perfectly fine to not do anything. And it is even more acceptable for you to not beat yourself up and feel guilty about it 2 - The Universe provides. God provides. Whoever or whatever it is that you believe in, will provide. If things seem uncertain, they might be for a time, and you should just let them remain uncertain, knowing that eventually they will be clear. It is also important to note that when they do become clear, you should trust in that clarity. If you don't make moves in life, the Universe will make them for you. 3 - We have very little control over anything outside of ourselves. It is often better to just take a deep breath and let things go than...
I'm an artist at heart. While photography and writing seems to top the list, I'm constantly looking at things wondering what I can do with them. I hate throwing things away (even if I'm recycling them) and am always looking for a way to reuse things. I recently became a tiny bit obsessed with old jars, bleeding art tissue and glitter. And acrylics. I've always loved making beaded jewelry and would love to experiment with fine metals too. And now it seems I have a strong desire to learn how to knit. I've always toyed with the idea of making my own clothing, and even though I'm fairly skilled at sewing the holes in my socks I'm not too sure how well I would do with a sewing machine, or knitting needles for that matter. But something about the colors, the feel of the yarn, the repetitiveness of the act of knitting and the satisfaction of wearing something I've made myself; it's all very appealing to me. I think all of this pretty much screams at...
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